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Massage therapy<\/a> is, by nature, a service that requires a certain level of intimacy between the therapist and the client. Before the massage even begins, the choice of massage therapist who will guide this moment of relaxation can sometimes trigger gender stereotypes and lead to a biased perception of massage therapy. In a delicate but essential approach, Bota Bota aims to break these taboos in order to offer its guests a wider range of possibilities when it comes to choosing a massage therapist.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A practice rooted in kindness<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Pascal Rousseau, a massage therapist at Bota Bota for many years, first developed his expertise through his training as an actor. \u201cI learned my first massage techniques during body awareness workshops at theatre school.\u201d When he practices his craft, he takes on a role that is very close to his heart. \u201cI discovered that I have a strong ability to listen,\u201d a valuable asset that helps him quickly understand his clients\u2019 needs. \u201cFully inhabiting the role of massage therapist is very important,\u201d kindness is at the core of this profession.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

From the very first handshake, trust begins to form: \u201cI always look the client in the eyes and make sure to be reassuring.\u201d Pascal always guides his clients to the opposite side of the massage table to create space between them, allowing each person to maintain their personal bubble. \u201cIt helps preserve professional distance.\u201d He addresses everyone formally and uses their full name: \u201cThese small attentions and approaches can help avoid unintentionally creating an inappropriate or overly familiar atmosphere.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The most important task of a massage therapist is to understand the client\u2019s needs, and Pascal incorporates this into his daily practice: \u201cEvery body is different, every interaction is different, and by definition, every need is different.\u201d This often involves specific areas of the body to treat: \u201cThrough the draping, there\u2019s nothing erotic. The body is material to work with, to relieve\u2014it\u2019s a comprehensive form of care.\u201d It requires total surrender with someone you trust. Without that trust, the massage cannot work to its full potential.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Creating a safe space for all<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Massage therapy is a profession that is often gendered in the collective imagination\u2014a reality Pascal fully understands: \u201cIt\u2019s such an intimate form of contact that as a client, you can\u2019t help but be affected by it. The massage therapist\u2019s role, whether male or female, is to break down barriers and help the person feel comfortable and safe.\u201d The first impression, the eye contact, and the overall attitude are the main pillars of building a healthy and trusting relationship. \u201cAll of that has to come without judgment. You never know what someone else has been through.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To help educate clients and guide them toward a more informed choice, Pascal believes that only time and kindness can make a difference: \u201cWe can\u2019t change people, but we can help them change\u2014one massage at a time. When I\u2019m with someone who seems hesitant, whether slightly or strongly, to be massaged by a man, I challenge myself to make them want to choose a male therapist the next time they get a massage.\u201d He laments the negative or ambiguous situations that some individuals exploit: \u201cIt\u2019s upsetting, and it undermines everything we work for every day.\u201d For Pascal, communication before the massage is the most important part of the entire experience: \u201cIt prevents misunderstandings or surprises. That way, everyone knows what to expect.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

On such a delicate subject as the gender of the massage therapist, Pascal is fully aware that each client comes to Bota Bota with their own unique personal experience. \u201cI respect everyone\u2019s decisions, I\u2019m not here to judge or to convince anyone.\u201d This approach, both altruistic and professional, truly reflects the atmosphere onboard. Well-being and relaxation begin with respect for Others.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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